Dada Bhagwan
2011
The young person who has attained the Self from Gnani Purush Dadashri, now does not want to get married, but lacks the true understanding about brahmacharya. Where and how does he begin? The thoughts that oppose brahmacharya will continue to arise. The intellect will show how it would be so difficult to live a life without anyone else. Everyone has married, so they must have done so with understanding. I have a heavy stock of sexuality so I will not be able to conquer it. Countless such thoughts will delude you. Therefore, revered Dadashri shows him ways, one by one. Nature supports the one who has strong resolve and wants to follow brahmacharya (absolute freedom form sexual impulses through mind-speech-body). Unflinching determination saves even if one is caught in all the traps of circumstances. Therefore, one needs to make the determination more and more strong, so that one remains unyielding even in adverse circumstances that are adverse to brahmacharya. Along with this, one needs to have the special attentiveness that any deception and insincerity (pol) in his matter will destroy the determination (nischaya). When one remains constantly sincere to the determination, and that determination verily becomes the goal, then it is possible to win the entire world and its interactions.
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